Just an update... I ordered the dye using the color chart for Dark Slate Grey (used on Crossfires). I found the color to be slightly lighter than the original. I painted the bad spot of the steering wheel where the dye was coming off last night. I am still waiting for the full 24 hours before I buff it. I am hoping the color will dull down a bit when I buff it.

Either way, it is ok. I move to plan B. I bought one of those wheelskins covers and I love it. Never thought I would put a steering wheel cover on my car but this looks really nice. I ordered the charcoal color which matches the steering wheel real close. I am just waiting for the dye to dry before I start lacing up the wheel cover.