do you have a garage? if you dont again your welcome to use mine. ill call jhm2k over and we can help as much or as little as you want!
when i did my 40k service i did coolant oil tranny and filter and rear diff along with brakes and full fluid flush.
i have the diff pump to fill the diff and a motive power bleeder for the brake flush.
you will need 15 qts of 50/50 mix coolant filter and gasket with i think 8 qts syn. tranny fluid and 9 qts oil and filter. i used mobil 1 for all the fluids except brake and coolant. there i used motul blue and m/b coolant with distilled water for the mix

ball joints steering is checked for excessive play and rubber boots for tearing
acc drive belt (serpentine ) for cracks and missing pieces and excessive wear grooves
i used akebono euro pads and really like them. zero dust and the only squeal is a little one upon backing. all in all very quiet, and wear like iron