It got me too! Thanks to this forum I took in your posts and demanded that they replace the relay. My car has had episodes of not starting and of dying while driving (actually turning in somewhere, which is really scary!). I told my mechanics what the forum had said and they kinda pooh poohed it. They said they thought it was the computer system although no codes but the famous P0410 code came up. Then I printed off the info on this forum, including the price and part number, and drove it over to the shop and gave it to them and said read it! After reading they agreed and said, "Let's give it a shot!" I have the car back as of today and have my fingers crossed.

Thanks so much guys!