Sorry you are having problems. The pics Andrew posted should be good along with the instructions.
I'm not trying to be harsh but if it is above your abilities maybe you should take it to a local mechanic or custom accessory place.
If you can't get the bulbs in make sure they are H7 and if they are and your still having trouble you could remove the lamp assembly and install the bulb on the bench.
Hope this helps.
Good luck.