Although I don't have UConnect in my 2004 Dodge Durango, the manual is pretty extensive as to how to use it. The manual for my Crossfire only has the same thing yours does. I got mine in December '03 and my VIN is 008XXX.

The UConnect for the Durango also has a special mirror that contains the microphone and bluetooth electronics and is wired to the stereo to use a speaker for the phone.

Dennis