Finally, an update of sort. After visiting a local "five star" dealer, and having them refuse to sell me the flywheel locking tool. Them -"We don't sell tools". Me "But it's in the factory service manual. How would you suggest I get one? I want to do this myself". Them "we don't sell tools".

Searching the Internet gave me pages, in Europe, for purchasing one.

I went back to another, true, Five Star dealer that has helped me in the past, and I have bought more than a few vehicles from (should have called there first but I'm sooo far from them driving time). I just received their shop tool to use, and return when I'm done. That tool, and a 5 ft cheater on my breaker bar got the harmonic balancer bolt loose. I have to get ready and go to work, so, more later.