Re: Xfire Date
while i agree with the collared shirt thing, i think play to what you're comfortable in. you don't wan to feel ill at ease because you're wearing something you don't normally... unless that gives you a sense of challenge. me, it juices me up to dress up. i feel more empowered.
tee shirt, i say, if it's a solid color, and dark, you'd be fine.
i've dated a lot online, and if this is your first meeting, in real life, don't stress. most of the time if you walk away from that first meeting with a positive impression, that's enough. she WILL remember what you wore though. the girl i dated from match, or whatever site, like 4 months into dating, asked me to wear what i wore on our first meeting again, being specific down to what belt i had on.
also, from online experience, again, if this is your first meeting, it's not really a "date" more as a "check the person out"... if so, i'd skip the flowers... there is such a thing as coming on too strong. and online dating is/can be a lot scarier for girls than guys. something to consider, especially if she's taken a while to convince to go out.
dude, just relax and have fun. be yourself. be one with the xfire! hah.
i'm 28, btw, for age reference.