This seems like "Only Men" kind of Thread.
My apology to barge in.
If you don't mind opinion from the opposite sex.
After reading this,
Originally Posted by Arcrist
Would it be rational to help her lose weight? Like some sort of exercise partner? Maybe she just gained a bit after her last break up. We're talking like 40-50 pounds. I hate to be cruel and dismiss someone when there is a cute girl underneath that redundant protoplasm.
You are like the character in a movie where this guy only see Gwyneth Paltrow (the kind heart inside a person) when others see the actual BIG girl he was dating. NOT implying the shallow part, alright.
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Very nice, kind and if sweet is acceptable a character, thats what you are.
If that "date" of yours didn't see it in you, her loss. And am sure you will meet one that well deserved you.
Don't give up.
All the best.
