The young people I see (and have dated) called themselves Christian, and had proud parents who knew little of their social activities. My whole family follows various religions, I do not. They are proud of me because I make good choices in life. I treat others with respect, and I have morals. So saying congrats to them is like turning the cheek to someone like myself who does the right thing and is not religious. This is also why I don't "click" with religious folk. I find more hypocrites than anything. (not saying you are, thats a general consensus).