I feel your pain. I am still not over from when they did the hit and run on my car 3 weeks ago today. They had to paint the entire side of my car thanks to the metallica paint.
I hope you get your car fixed soon. I didn't even want to drive mine anymore after what happened.
I will need to remember the count to a 1000 routine next time before I blow up. I have one of the worst tempers in the world.
Would the saying "No good deed goes unpunished" apply to your case? LOL Stuff like that has happened to me all the time. I hardly ever let anyone drive my car. That is why I hardly ever drive anyone elses car for that matter.
Good luck with everything my Texas neighbor,
Ron