like i said lessons in life thats what you need. having **** handed to you teaches you nothing at all, blood sweat and tears, builds character and pride, what a man needs. you cant buy experience or respect, you earn it. to earn these things you take your beatings stand up and ask for another with a smile on your face. i could go to school for free through my company, for anything i want. but im happy working shoulder to shoulder with real men, who stand up and perform every day, no matter the conditions. im proud to work with the men i work with, and in my company you earn your stripes in the field not in a class room. my best days at work are the ones that are 14 - 16 hours long and i come home exhausted covered in sweat or freezing cold depending on the season, most days bleeding, i love it, i live for it, and it gives me a sense of pride to come home and look around and say i earned every thing i have. sitting in a cuibicle just isnt for everyone. before you go and disrespect someone think about what your saying and how it might effect them, because one day youll open your mouth to the wrong person that isnt 1200 miles away and acting coy wont get you out of it.