Originally Posted by 04chryslr
thanks, ya I will try to tell her, its just hard, I never thought I would do that

your an idiot DO NOT tell your fiance what you have done, the relationship will never be the same again and she will resent you for a long time! Don't be a moron again!
Live with the pain of treating her like crap. it's much easier that dealing with a pist off woman everyday of your life.... use your big head this time!
And why are you getting married anyways, you obliviously have little respect for your fiance, and your only 20 years old. your looking at a bad outcome here, and lots of money wasted due to divorce, lawyers, babies, letting down your family and hers, the list keeps growing , etc etc...grow up first bro!