If you are not going to be a daddy:
- Do not tell the fiance.
- Never let her stumble upon the Crossfire Forum

If you are going to be a daddy:
- You will have to tell the fiance once you start paying child support and she realizes that the monthly budget just shrunk.
- You will probably need to sell the Crossfire so that you can tote the kid around or use the insurance money to help pay child support.

Are you sure that the ex didn't do this because she was already Preggo and would rather have you as the "father". Sounds like a potential Maury Povich episode. As previously stated, get tested.

Good Luck .... we are all hoping for the best.....keep us posted.