Originally Posted by Mr. F
if he was real religious he probably wouldn't have tapped it in the first place.
Oh puleeze!!!
Priests and Ministers get it all the time - any time, any place, any gender....
If you are getting married and start out your life together with a lie you will probably live to regret it (unless she knows how to shoot, and then you won't).....
If your relationship is strong enough it will survive this, if not - well, you should have kept it in your pants.....
... and a lot of this really depends on whether the ex is preggers or not - if she is, you are so screwed - 18 years of child support is a long-g-g time...
BTW - I want to thank you - I have some real lousy stuff going on in my life right now and am feeling pretty low, but hearing your story, I realize I'm not so bad off after all....