Dude, i HAVE BEEN IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD THAT YOU ARE IN.

#1 YOUR EX WILL ALWAYS BE INTERESTED IN YOU AND THAT IS A TEMPTATION THAT YOU HAVE TO WORK OUT.

#2 HAVE A COUNCILING SESSION WITH A TRAINED INDIVIDUAL. AFTER THAT HAS TRANSPIRED, BRING YOUR FIANCE INTO THE LIGHT TO DO THE FOLLOWING, WITH THE COUNCLER (SPELLING) TO ASSIST THE PROCESS.

A. COME CLEAN, YOU TOLD THE FORUM, AND SECRETS DO COME TO LIGHT, PERIOD.

B. GIVE HER THE CONSIDERATION AS YOUR SOON TO BE EQUAL THAT SHE IS WORTHY AND DESERVES TO BE TREATED WITH CLASS AND HONESTY. THIS WILL BE RECEIVED WELL AFTER THE SURPRISE PASSES.

C. THIS PROCESS WILL INFORM HER AND GIVE YOU THE UNDERSTANDING THAT YOU ARE CAPABLE OF SLIPPING AND THAT BOTH OF YOU KNOW IT, SHE WILL WATCH OUT FOR YOU AND YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU M-U-S-T NOT GO THAT WAY AGAIN OR THERE IS NO REASON TO GET INVOLVED IE MARRIED.

IF YOU DONT WANT TO ACCEPT THE LIMIT OF NO MORE RUNNING AROUND WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED OR ENGAGED WHICH IS WORSE THEN DONT MAKE YOURSELF OR HER MISERABLE, JUST BE SINGLE.

BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF, YOU FELT SO ROTTEN AS TO TELL THE WORLD AS MUCH.

PS UNTIL YOU SEE THE KID SHE IS NOT LATE . IF THERE IS A KID OR TWO THEN YOU HAVE CREATED A WHOLE RAFT OF PROBLEMS AND NEED TO GET TO A PROFESSIONAL EVEN MORE QUICKLY.

WOODY