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Old Feb 13, 2008 | 11:22 AM
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Cool Re: to marry or not to marry

Originally Posted by zless
appealing to the varied perspectives, ages, experiences, and wisdom that exist on this forum

my biggest fear of marriage is of losing my attraction to the woman once she is over 45....seen it happen so many times...
"Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder"...with that said, there are many, many other attributes that you should consider...looks in my opinion is at the bottom of the list. Remember that she could feel the same about you...health, genetics and lifestyle will dictate how a person will age. Most important in a marriage (IMHO) is that each other truly loves the other and that you can communicate, validate and work together and not try to dominate the other...all other things will fall into place.
 
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