Originally Posted by Kurts

Doc Kurt answers:

I'm 53, have 2 grown kids both outta the house & have been married for 32 years; same woman. A great woman. Who keeps wanting to swipe my car & sometimes succeeds 'cause she well, like, threatens me. That's how they do it, by the way: they F with your heads. But that's another subject altogether.......
You've got to remember that you get old, too......& if things go right in 30 years it don't matter so much anymore. Put yourself in her shoes: you ain't gonna look much better in 30 years, either.
Honestly & seriously, My wife has stuck with me through all the crap that can happen in a lifetime, accidents, kids, financial fun & games, surgeries, scars, deaths, too many now that I'm getting older, parents, relatives, absolutely all the stuff that can happen in a lifetime. She was once a slender, lithe, innocent girl........I've watched her grow into a mature, responsible, loving, motherly, "please put on your **** clothes, baby" kinda woman, everything you thought it could & couldn't be. THAT'S worth the price of admission, gentleman: that's what you can look forward to. It can be a great ride & I'm a lucky guy!
'Course, I know folks who have been divorced 3 times & finally found someone to stick it out with. Who knows, sometimes it takes more than one! BUT, if you've found the near-perfect woman (there isn't perfection anywhere in the human race. Forget about ever finding the "PERFECT" woman/man) then perhaps it's time to take a chance.
Trust me, I'm no eunuch, I'm not whipped, I've F'ed up many a time.....I'm a guy, that's what we're great at!
But then again, that's just me & my opinion. It's worked for me, I'm happy.
Trust Doc. Kurt.
I'm cheap.
Now go spend your money on a mod. or two.