no it wasnt the first date it was the 3rd date, the flower thing was because she said she walked by the flower stand and said the flowers smelled good ( she lives by the flower stand). I dont think that was the Issue. As far as talking about the car I didnt speak of it any more than agree with her about what she was saying. I am not really worried about not going on another date with her. I just find it funny that she used the car as a cop out instead of just saying that she didnt want to see me again.