I posted this on the other thread, but here it is again. I suggest anyone having problems go to the Mercedes Benz SLK 320 forum, and join. Identify yourself as a Xfire owner. They were extremely helpful when I asked questions, and I found many of our problems were also their problems, but already solved because of the age of their cars compared to the XFire.
Sorry, I do have the link available for that forum.
It really does sound like a ground/battery problem or a problem with the anti-theft system.
I am editing this to reflect two MB forums. You might use the search feature to see if the problem is listed:
1.
http://mbworld.org/forums/Index.php
2.
http://www.benzforum.com/forum/