Usually I don't comment on a member's personal info, but we met and spent an evening with Bill and his wife. Only because of that evening can I say that Bill didn't get "the hot tongue and cold shoulder treatment". One thing that impressed us was how amazingly gracious and nice she was, but even more, so how considerate, attentive and affectionate Bill was towards her. The forum and XF were not her "thing" but seeing her husband happy is.