Welcome to the forum. It's always good to hear from someone "down under".
If you have a "Standard" model you do not have a cup holder, instead you have a small open storage bin just forward of the center console lid, next to the brake handle. If you have a "Limited" model, the cup holder is in the same place as the storage bin is in the Standard. At least that's thae way it's set up in "US" models.
You have me a tad confused, which really isn't all that hard to do. You made three posts within 30 minutes of each other in two different threads. Your first and third posts imply you have a new XF, the second post seems to say you want one now after waiting two years... do you have a XF or are you still waiting?
Here is a photo of the cup holder "US" models: