yeah they have a pretty decent price list and the harness i plan to use if one that has built in capacitors which i got from here.
http://www.dxhid.com/purchasehidparts.htm
it is the part titled relay with resistor
55w will make the low beams plenty bright and take care of aiming it correctly and i think we will have a decent setup. it is better to buy new kits than to buy new bulbs almost the same price.