Welcome to the forum. Congrats on the car. Be sure to add your car's details to your sig.

The washing/waxing varies depending on where you drive, the weather, is the car garaged?, etc. I wash mine weekly and will probably wax it every 3 to 4 months. Go to Meguiars and you can get a car care prescription customized for you.
http://www.meguiars.com/carrx.cfm