oh yeah i forgot shift around 3k-3.5k and it should be smoother transition, blip throttle a little upon shift and try to rev match
oh yeah one more thing try driving around one day without traction control it is fun especially when you shift lol

.
Even though manual can be notchy in the morning once you warm it up i love the manual over an auto. now if you live in a big metropolitan city that is gonna suck