Regina:
Yes, apparently you can pull the fuse and it stops the spoiler from coming up but you will find that at speeds over approx. 85 miles an hour, the warning alarm comes on. So, if you are not going to go that fast it probably won't effect you. I am planning to disconnect mine also but for a different reason. I have been driving my coupe in in very cold weather and when it hits -40 I don't want the electric motor on a frozen spoiler to burn out. If you look through the forum, you will see information posted by other members about the spoiler issue. Good luck.