Thanks for the reply. I was just looking around myself and it looks like he was trying to sell me the standard harness for '05+ Chrysler,Dodge, and Jeeps. I did take his word on the antenna adapter and it's female to female, so he was wrong on both counts. I fell for the 2nd though. I'll return the antenna one and order the two from Crutchfield.

Edit: I just purchased a Clarion VRX585USB DVD deck. It's silver is a dead match to the dash and I will paint the trim piece.
Thanks again,