After your worldly materal possessions have been taken by the cleaners and the date of your divorce is final... Mark your divorce date on your calender. After ((one)) year you'll will be a much happier person than you origionally were. After a divorce is finalized,it takes one year to get over the anger and hurt. Then you will be able to get your head back on straight and to focus on your many options you have. You have only one life on this earth. Focus,overcome then you'll be happy again! Reguardless of any situation,a man can and will always pull thru and survive. Trust me.. Been there,Done that! Squirrel Crusher