black out the wings. definitely. it will update the look. chrome is old school. i even thought about smoothing the whole front of the hood and repainting it to get rid of those giant wings! lower the car. having lots of black is very sporty, and wheel gap stands out a lot more with lots of black. don't black out the wheels. it only looks good if you still have a silver lip.
just my thoughts.... still trying to stay on the forums when i can!