Sometimes your best pit bull CAN be your insurance company. Go ahead and sit down with them with your evidence and talk. Let them sleuth out the other guy's insurer, and they'll have them go after this jerk. That's what you pay them to do.

A parked hit & run does not go against your claim history as a moving offense.

I feel your pain. The Crossfire door is four feet of beautiful sheet metal. Even one little ding really sux.