Thanks for the wishes everyone, it has truly been a trying 2 weeks, and....
THE SPOILER CAME BACK UP, THE SWITCH IS BLINKING, AND ABS + BAS/ESP ARE LIT AGAIN
They took a 42" LCD TV, a 47" LCD TV, Ipods, sunglasses, some tools, and other random stuff (including a smoke detector they stole from the wall, explain that LOL). The only plus is that the garage is unattached and I have a different lockset on it, they were not able to get into the garage, so they were not able to steal/bother my broken XF LOL
It has been over freezing here during the day everyday and this thing has not solved itself, I am sure hoping it does when it gets above 45 degress.
Odd for a problem like this to not have been experienced by many members, maybe there are not a whole lot of us that drive them in the snow
THANKS AGAIN EVERYONE, if anyone tries to sell you an LCD TV from Indy reeeeally cheap..... shoot them for me, will ya??