After looking for over an hour for my paint code, I decided to drive to the dealer. I had the parts man give me all 5 paint codes for the 2004 models. It seems many others here may or may not need them. I'm sorry if this was already given but I searched and could not find this info.
Hope it helps someone..

Alabaster - P61
Black - P41
Graphite Metallic - PDR
Saphire Silver Blue Metallic - P53
Blaze Crystal Pearl Red - PRH

If anyone should know the code for the silver band around the windshield, I need that. He was not able to give me that one. He said it came painted and I did not have time to go out to the body/paint shop.