I assume that sive81364 has his address and phone number. If he cannot reach him through those methods, I seriously doubt leaving his account here open will make any difference. I can understand a young guy falling on hard times as many college students do, but how you handle yourself when you are in the throws of those situations speaks volumes about who you are as a person. I was raised to believe that my word is the most important asset that i will ever possess. If this situation is indicative of his moral fortitude, then he has a rude awakening coming to him when he tries to apply the knowledge that his parents are investing in him. A lack of integrity will not bode well for him as he ventures into adulthood.

I say, ban him and deal with this situation via legal channels.