I've got the 6k and have yet to be flashed, don't these women know that's why I got brighter lights?

You might consider angling them down just a bit, just a 1/2 turn on the *** at a time until you feel it is about right for you. Of course if you install HID's in the high beam, you could flash them back...but be ready to swerve or duck when they lose control or start shooting.