Hey Guys
I followed the instructions to the letter. Removed the relay and took it to an electrical engineer friend who has the where with all and know how to solder the connections. In any case he did a fantastic job. Even redid some others he thought were questionable. Long story short I was up and running and so pleased with myself for venturing into unknown territory.

Yesterday I was coming home and had to stop to pick up some groceries. The car would not start when I returned from the store. After waiting about ten minutes it started. The check engine light is on. I didnt dare drive the Xfire to work today and borrowed my wifes chariot.

I suppose it might be that sensor problem that seems similar?