Well i have got 95% of it off... Used Wax and Tar Remover that I found over in the paint section at the Auto Zone, Oh and my fingernail!!! LOL There is still white all up in the wheel well, but it is slowly going away, the only part I can't really get to is right under the car, like all down the side between the wheels...would need a lift or something, may take it be a detail shop and see if they can get that bit off, have them put a coat of wax back on it, though sometimes they tend to leave that white power in the cracks! But they could wash it and clean it out good.
So just a bit more elbow grease and I'll have it all off... just got too dang hot for me out there this morning, even the guy that lives a few doors down stopped and asked if I was alright, cause I was just sitting there, well was actually sending a text message and drinking some water.
Thanks for everyone's help and suggestions, much appreciated. I know I can always count on you all for a solution.
Hugs to All
Debbie