The only reason it looks like an ironing board to them, is that is all they are going to see....yes, the 5 speed auto is the same, and can go manual. The wing serves a purpose above 100 mph...and especially if you want to venture to 160. I personally wouldn't want the flemcy looking skate board hanging on the back of my car...but as they say, each to their own...go drive one and see what you think...but a big move from 4x4 to sports car. As for price. I have 15.5 out the door for my coupe...they are out there, just have to search for them, and be willing to do some driving to get them.