Kim,
I agree 100%. Molly and I spend a majority of our free time at race events, car shows, autoXing, etc. and put more time and money into our cars than 99% of the population - we are not waxers, I have helped build cars and customized more than I can count.
Maybe I am delicate - because I don't like drunk rednecks hitting on my girlfriend. Say it was in fun or just razzing - **** that. I have never encountered another 'car club' like yours and I hope I never have to again.
How many times did the cops come visit your group over the weekend?