I agree wholeheartedly with Sparkie. I was burned for $500 back in my naive days when I sent a money order to a forum member (not this forum) I trusted was selling me a hood, because it was one of a kind. They had pictures and everything. Guess what? He was a fraud. Took the money and ran, no way for me to get the money back. I contacted every law enforcement agency I could that dealt with online fraud and there was very little interest in helping me.
Paypal is the most legit way to pay for goods and services, as you are guaranteed to get a refund if the goods/services are not provided. The fact that Sparkie offered to pay the Paypal fees and shipping and you STILL wouldn't work with him, tells me he was willing to go above and beyond and that you are not a good seller.
And your childish response is similar to the little kid that gets butt-hurt over something stupid and says "I'm taking my toys and going home."