So the shopping list includes:

Clutch Kit from LUK inc (part#: 11-040) via ebay ~ $540
Wrong Part, does not fit -> Dual Mass Flywheel from LUK inc (part#: DMF081) via Carolina Clutch and Performance ~ $600
Flywheel locking tool from Miller tools (part#: 9102) via Ebay ~ $27
Transmission Lift from Central Hydraulics via Harbor Frieght with 20% off coupon ~ $65
3/8" Air Ratchet from Central Pneumatic via Harbor Frieght ~ $20
1/4" and 3/8" E-Socket Set from Pittsburgh Tools via Harbor Freight ~ $10 on sale

So for about $1280 I can get all new parts and do this myself versus selling the car or paying $5500 to dealer/transmission shop.