Re: I'm tried of looking at it!
...I would not trade in that '04 Coupe. You'll get screwed on it. The residuals on these cars has been hurt by the incentives on the new cars. But I think if you can get Private Party on it, you would be in good shape. What I would do, is e-bay off the '04 Coupe. You may or may not break even on what you owe (depending on how you financed it), but you won't have to roll over a big chunk of change into the new car, which would negate any savings you could negotiate.
E-bay off the '04 Coupe, take your 19 grand and pay off the loan, and then start from the bottom working the deal on the SRT. I would recommend calling another dealer across town with the exact same car to sell, and get them bidding against one another. Every time you get a new offer, call the other guy and tell him he has just been undersold. Keep it going, and I would not be at all surprised if you get that SRT for somewhere in the low thirties.