Well, I did the RCM fix. I was at first intimidated by the idea of removing a circuit board from my car and soldering it, but the hardest part probably was getting the cover off the RCM. I did see a small crack in the solder at the joint in question. Hopefully I didn't make matters worse with a bad solder job, (I was a little nervous my car wasn't go to start at all when I put everything back together.) If in time it turns out I didn't make matters worse and the car is behaving better I may get the courage to try the "me so horny" mod.