So sorry to hear of your concern. A seperation is time to reflec and try to work things back to normal. If you think that is impossible then Divorce is the only way What every you want to keep will be a part of your assets and in most states the judges like it to be faily equal. You keep the XF and what will she get to equal the same value, etc.

I am so lucky to have a great marriage of 34 years. What's the secret? When I got my XF I bought her one too.......

KJ