Originally Posted by
vallartenses
If in fact he's in the military, they take a very dim view of service members acting less than honorably. I dare say after his CO "speaks" to him it'll be the last time he'll pull a stunt like this.
Exhaust all possible avenues before contacting his unit's 1st sergeant. If anything threaten to contact his unit and that should set him straight. The last thing any service member wants is their command getting into their personal lives. Especially if he is having trouble with finances.
Speaking from my time in service and my dad's.