YIKES
You're not the only person that we've heard STRANGE stories regarding Chrysler service. I'm starting to wonder if all the Chrysler mechanics are morons, or they think the owners are all morons !
Are you sure you're talking about the headlight, or the fog light ! Neither would require taking any of the wheels off... Nor lifting the car ! And you said they had to take BOTH wheels off to replace ONE headlight ? LOL
It's like me telling you I have to open the hood to fill the car with gas !!!