LOL.....I know what you mean. Most of the time on here you only see the problems people are having with their cars. But that isn't the case. The majority have had really good luck with their cars, and you may own one of them. Don't get down on your car because you read these posts. I mod mine a lot, but the only problems I have had was an Intake Temp Sensor which had a broken prong, and the Crankshaft Position Sensor. I have yet to do anything else to either car, not even the dreaded RCM. Roadster is nearing 40K and the coupe 30K. They are great cars, and safe cars, proven time and time again.
Do what I did. I bought an ole' Tahoe (The Hoe) and a little Suzuki 4 wheel drive to get me around in the winter. I have about 10K invested in 2 4 wheel drives. Cheaper than buying a new DD.