I don't pretend to know your personal situation, but based on what I have seen other buddies go through in their divorces, especially when custody was concerned, I would offer you some advice...

The lawyers went through everything these guys posted online, facebook, forums, the whole 9 and found talk of drinking and womanizing and it led to not getting custody of the kids because it was not a sound environment for the children. He was a great dad and never did that stuff when the kids were around, but it didn't matter at that point, just because of the things he said online to some buddies. Be careful, everything you say is out there for all to see