So about 30m after i posted that post this is what we have done (no luck yet) We took the TCM out. I opened it up and we re-soldered the connections on the circuit * we have electrical experience* I do have the obdII bluetooth sensor it connects to android. I do have a dipstick lvl's are good. Apparently my dad found a video series on how to fix the tranny on that car. It says even though you dont think you have to, what you find on the internet is wrong. He says you need to have a DRB3 tool to clear the code on the tcm. If the tcm is coded, it will code the ecm and the ecm will light the light. So were gonna try that soon i think. Ty for the pic tho. lol if only a bit sooner, took us some poking and we found it.