Thankfully you and your Wife are OK. It sounds as though your car might be a good candidate for "salvage title" reincarnation. I hate to hear of perfectly fine Crossfire's being taken off the road just because of a fender bender.
I'm going to miss your contributions to the forum, but you know you're always welcome to drop in here anytime.
The Veloster Forum will soon discover that they inherited a great addition to there group. I think you picked a cool looking car. Good Luck