Finally!

Waited a few days for all the monitors to finish incrementing. The CAT monitor was still had not incremented so 10 miles on the freeway with cruise on at 57 mph and voila, CAT monitor finished. No CEL so off to smog the next morning and PASSED.

Should have pulled the RCM again as onehundred80 posted earlier.

Needlessly spent $225 installing 2 Bosch upstream o2 sensors but, hey, at the end of the day not a huge tragedy.

Thanks to all who participate here!