A fixed or new ACM will not fix it. It has only 3 wires running to it, +12, ground and a control wire to trigger it.
You have something screwed up in the wiring, or your ILCM ( headlight switch )
The fuses for the lights are located in the ILCM, pop the cover off the driver's side of the dash and you'll see them. ( the cover has a fuse chart )